This is something I wrote in mid October. I was not in the best of spirits. lol;)
I have survived yet another, and indeed the last, country homestay. This time I was at an advantage: I could understand and effectively speak Khalkha Mongol the whole week. Also the refreshing laid-back Khalkha attitude was a welcome respite from the strictly scheduled Darkhad routine of Ulaan-Uul. While the interview was supposed to be on my upcoming ISP, I quickly found that anything on ethnicity and/or nationalism was not in the herder repertoire. Luckily, I was able have more than the set hour to communicate and learn beyond my own intellectual prowess. Although herders may not have the same interests as me, I stand faithful that we can learn from each other- hopefully, I accomplished this goal.
From the interview I was able to gleam some diversity of opinion and a larger demographic in some general questions regarding ethnicity and nationalism in the Mongolia conquest. To my questions on Inner Mongolia, my host mom thought she had little to offer; however, it was her unadulterated opinion on the subject that was interesting to me. She was able to provide me with her actual opinion on the subject. She said that she figures that Inner Mongolians or not they can’t be that different from people in Mongol Uls. This suggests a strong feeling of solidarity, regardless of geography, nationality, or even sub ethnicity. It would seem that regardless of basic small tensions and stereotypes, even the loathsome expression of tsever khalkh mongol bears little meaning to actual racism as seen in the United States for example.
As far as being Khalkha Mongol goes, I can see that there is really little actual meaning to the determination in the modern Mongolian nation. When I asked my Darkhad family what they think makes a Darkhad Mongol they were able to come up with some traits, etc. When I asked the same question to my Delgerkhaan host family they could come up with nothing beyond location and language. As an academic, I consider it part of my student duties to question such constructed titles, especially considering that this particular one was not (to my knowledge) determined by Mongolians themselves, but rather came out of Manchu Imperialism.
Playing off of this, I was also surprised to learn that despite my Ulaanbaatar family’s insistence it is not universally believed that people from Uvs Aimag are dumb, or otherwise uncultured (as the word may be applied to Mongolia). My host mom in Delgerkhaan as well as Bagana were actually quite surprised that I even would ask such a question. Dulgmaa replied that Uvs people are actually considered actually very smart and that most of Mongolia’s best leaders have come from the western aimags. I wonder if perhaps there may be some inter-aimag tension between my UB host family’s Zavkhan roots and neighboring Uvs.
For reasons of length, I changed my interview topic midway into a topic that my host mother would be better able to answer. However, when my host father came back he quickly regained control of the interview in Mongolian man fashion (to be fair, my host mother seemed more than willing to relinquish her role as interviewee and return to making dinner). We talked about Mongolian traditional medicine and body ideals. While they mentioned several medicinal herbs, there seemed to be no obvious stem theory to the system. For example, I personally practice Ayurveda, a Hindu system of medicine, and while specifics are mentioned the system is guided by set principles and ideas about the body so items can be substituted and adapted to the Western user. Mongolian traditional medicine, at least as far as herders are personally concerned seems to not follow this rule. However, I am sure that traditional Buddhist medicine does indeed follow a similar principle, and it was not mentioned due to my family’s own lack of personal knowledge on the subject.
The map project was generally uneventful. I lived in the middle of nowhere and within a 100 meter radius there was generally nothing much to draw. The difference was in scale, space perception, and style. I used a circle for the ger while my host mother drew out little gers as if a person was looking north at out homestead. Also she included the river, which is far beyond the area I asked for. I think these differences are primarily an association issue, whereby I think of the area as a location with things in certain places, etc. She, however, is drawing her home, not just some week location. In this sense her visualization is more cute and intimate. Mine is withdrawn and practical.
I had a much better time at this homestay. This is probably due to a combination of my own slow adaptation to country life and my previous familiarity with Khalkha people. Even though I was the furthest from base camp and nowhere near any of the others, I felt much less abandoned than the Ulaan-Uul homestay. I question my previous statement in regards to Khalkha people, since I am actually used to Ulaanbaatarchuud. Perhaps I had fewer expectations and they were able to surpass them. Regardless, I feel that I did manage to charm them into adoring me. While Purevsuren had immediately declared me his son, it took 5 days for Aakhuu to do the same. Perhaps I actually earned it? This is the most tiring part of these homestays: I have to convince three separate families that I am a good person and that they should love me. When I am living on my own I feel much more able to naturally make friends without the pressure of matching the hosting families’ hospitality. Exhausted.
